27 Apr Stop Masturbating
Masturbation in marriage, is a destroyer.
Masturbation
Masturbation is an act by which people get involved in self-stimulation of their genitals. For the purpose of pleasure to the point of orgasm, to release themselves from the grip of sexual urge.
Masturbation is a stronghold, if it gets hold of a human’s life it devours it. If you ignorantly release your spouse to it, you will likely not get the best or anything good out of him or her any longer.
Masturbation is a spirit. The moment one lures him or herself into it, he begins to derive a demonic unstoppable pleasure and satisfaction from it. Which makes him or her not looking at the side of the spouse, who denied him or her sex. This is very dangerous.
Happens anywhere.
It’s a shameless act. Masturbation can take place anywhere. The victim does not need the permission or a consent of anyone to start masturbating. The only problem he or she may have is where he or she is at that particular time?
He or she may be at work, they take excuse to the restroom to satisfy themselves. In the bank? That may be difficult, but some still find their ways into the toilet of the same bank and do it for as short or as long as other users come around.
There is a connection between Pornography and Masturbation. It always starts with Pornography, then followed by Masturbation.
Once someone goes into Pornography, the next will be Masturbation and the use of self-made objects. Likewise, anyone who finds himself in masturbation first would want to support it with Pornography, where lessons for varieties can be obtained to forget about the right way of doing sex.
It is nothing but wickedness!
It is very common with women to resist sex for different reasons, though. Many of these reasons are not genuine enough to say no to sexual demand from a husband.
By nature; men are wired to have sexual intercourse regularly, irrespective of how many rounds per time.
Punishment.
It is a great punishment when a woman decides to deny her husband sex for any reason best known to her. It is not against the man alone. It’s also against the instruction of the Bible that says
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1corinthians 7:5
If the punishment someone can mete out to a spouse for any offense is sexual denial, it is nothing but wickedness, and it is too bad.
The kingdom of God is bitter, while hell rejoices anytime it happens.
Atrocities of Masturbation.
1. It causes disfavour.
2. It creates a gap between husband and wife.
3. It is a challenge expander.
1. It causes disfavour.
Masturbation is a spirit when it grips a victim, it turns its victim to a slave. Favour is strongly allergic to Masturbation in marriage. The moment it finds its way into a life, favour begins to distant itself from there.
2. It creates a gap between husband and wife.
The moment one entered into the habit of Masturbation, the other party will no longer be desirable to him or her sexual. Unity is automatically wounded in that family, it’s only God through his weapon of deliverance that can sort it.
They always want to stay alone to avoid any that can hinder them when the urge arises.
3. It is a challenge expander.
There is no issue that God cannot solve. Whatever that happens in marriage that leads either of the couple into Masturbation is an agent that brings in masturbation to shorten the hand of God from fighting their battles. The spirit of Masturbation is an accuser that stands against a victim before God.
4. Affection and Love.
Masturbation kills one’s affection and love for his or her spouse. Masturbation in a general and clear term, totally takes the place of love and affection of a spouse in the heart of his or her husband or wife who becomes the victim of Masturbation. Gradually, hatred sets in.
Solution.
It is advisable that the one who is not a victim should set up a rescue strategy to deliver and save the concern from the grip of the spirit of Masturbation.
First, go for counselling.
Secondly, check yourself if you are not the cause. If you are not the one who opened the door for the spirit to come into your family to steal and devour.
Thirdly, how often are you available to shame the devil through carrying out your responsibility appropriately.
Next, be humble enough to apply every solution that will be available to sort the problem, and apologize where you need to apologize.
Lastly, support all your efforts with prayer, and if possible, add fasting for a fast result. You will surely get your spouse back.
Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God, all things are possible.
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