18 Mar Sex Can Never be a Sin, except.
My wife denied me SEX; I am dying!
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1 Corinthians 7:2
But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.
Marriage is an important aspect of human’s life which can never be over emphasize. It must not in any way be under rated.
We should not forget, that the first miracle of our Lord Jesus Christ took place, in a marriage ceremony at cana in Galilee. It shows how significant marriage is. Marriage is a shield that keeps people away from many sexual evil and atrocities.
To curb the atrocity of sexual immorality, the Bible says, let every man have his own wife, and every woman have her own husband’ Which permits every man and woman to satisfy him or herself with the spouse.
The only approved route to sexual intercourse is marriage.
Why is it that some children of God who are legitimately married, even the Pastors, suffer sexual denial from their spouses?
I am a teacher of the word. We discovered that many Christian homes are not in peace as a result of this.
Though the couple wear uniform; yet all is not well, they only pretend as if it is well.
Daddy cannot quarrel with mummy because of his position in the church, but daddy’s sexual urge is threatened and prone to temptation. That is why you see what you see, and hear what you hear today about immorality or adultery in the place of pulpit.
Politely disagree and frown at it!
It is better for a man of God or a responsible husband to disagree with his wife over sexual intercourse and let people hear, rather than him becoming a victim of backsliding through sexual immorality or adultery. The Bible says in the book of:
Ecclesiastes 8:11 Because punishment for an evil work comes not quickly, the minds of the sons of men are fully given to doing evil.
In this case, it’s not punishment but a correction. Once there’s adjustment, issues will be over.
It is not far from knowledge, and very obvious, that many women who busted their husbands to such a corner did not prepare themselves for the marriage.
All they were interested in was the number-one position of the church. Can someone please help me tell them, that this actually comes with responsibilities, part of which is, satisfying the man sexually.
What about ministers of God who refuse their wives intercourse?
Don’t let her go to hell.
Turn a new leaf, you can do it.
A wrong notion about sex.
● Does sex edify.
Some people believe that sex or very regular of it defies the spirit, soul, and body; it doesn’t matter that someone is legally and divinely married. He or she must do away with constant sex, so that the spirit of God can may always abide in him or her. It is ideologically believed among this set of people that sex on its own is dirty.
● Sex is not healthy.
Some even believe that sex that is beyond child bearing is not so good, it can cause some components of the body weak. This kind of people believes sex is not healthy for their life.
It is totally not true, those who are involved in this kind of campaign are those who have a personal agenda. They have a kind of lifestyle that is anti marriage they want to promote.
It is completely a fallacy
Sex promotes good health, binds family together and makes stronger.
● Sex is not a food.
To an unwilling mind, sex is not a food. Maybe they are facing one challenge or the other at a time of sexual demand that made immaterial to the individual at that particular time. It has become a popular talk that some people ignorantly standing on to live their lives, maybe they have health issues. The fact that someone finds it difficult to meet up with a standard is not a point to drop the standard.
Sex is a food, anything that satisfying or cures an appetite can be regarded as food. This food does not go through the mouth, but it goes into the body as the one that goes through the mouth. It gives satisfaction. Therefore, it is a food that produces peace, joy, and happiness in marriage.
Conclusion.
Sex is not a sin, it’s one of the things that God put in marriage to hold marriage together. It can only become a sin when it is done out of a wedlock.
When your spouse is reluctant to give you sex or always has one excuse or the other to refuse having sex with you, do not hesitate to correct him or her through the use of effective communication method and love.
2 Timothy 2:23 – 26
23. Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.
24. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.
25. Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth,
26. and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will. Niv
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