Marriage Treasure (Series 5)

23 Dec Marriage Treasure (Series 5)

Pampering.

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Pampering is one of the weapons available to be used in the world of marriage to win the heart of a spouse or someone you love. Pampering is not only limited to women. Men too need to be pampered.

Pampering is like a charm, no one is above Pampering. It holds like low price promo. When it occurs, every human being jumps at it like a baby to a honey cake.

When it comes to pampering in marriage, every person to be pampered is like a child and he or she has to be treated so.

For an emotional woman who is going through emotional weather actually needs the intervention of someone close to her, like her husband, to overcome the period.

All he needs to do is bring to her close, put her head on his shoulder and speak good words to her ears.

What can I do to pamper?

Surprises.

Surprise is what you do for someone without his or her pre knowledge of it, especially when he or she less expected it, and it’s so dear to him/her

One significant thing about Surprise is, it does not necessarily have to be so expensive or to be as big as a rock. What you have to be mindful of is to make sure It makes sense, and it has value.

It could be some sets of handkerchiefs, as small as it may be, you must make sure it would meet his or her needs then or in a short while.

Cooking surprise.

it’s generally known that in every family, the woman is in charge of the kitchen, the mother (wife) in the family does the cooking, and their food is always sweet.

There are occasions where daddy needs to show his love for his wife by preparing a special madam’s delicacy before she wakes up; and set the table before she gets up. Thereby lead her to the dinning table or take it to her in the bedroom.

Except she’s a devil, there is no woman who received such a surprise-treat that will not make a sound of appreciation (oooooooooh thank you, I love you).

Materials Surprise.

Material surprise is when you go on your own way to acquire a material gift for someone you love without his or her consent for the purpose of Surprise.

The most popular idea about Surprise is that“ it is the responsibility of the man to Surprise the woman” but it is not true. Surprises can come from either the husband or the wife.

It’s a big surprise, lots of women have not for once surprise their husband with just a piece of singlet since the beginning of their marriage, what a tragedy. All they believe is that, it’s the responsibility of the man to do so, her own is just to be collecting.

Driving Surprise.

Daddy can, as a matter of Surprise, decide to drive mummy out for a particular assignment she has for the day, irrespective of the numbers of drivers they have.

House shore.

House Shore!!! This has become a phenomenal that many women point to as an excuse for their lapses in some of their responsibilities.

And if you look at it thoroughly, when a woman is overwhelmed with domestic work, it might be difficult for her to be involved in any extra duty, even the major one.

This has made it a point of great appreciation from them to anyone who chooses to relieve them of this responsibility at a time in their lives.

That’s Why some of them clamour for “a house help”. Before that becomes a reality, out of love, daddy can just get into the kitchen and assistant mummy to do some kitchen works as a matter of Surprise. In which when she gets there it would be a surprise to see the things that already done.

Such a relief is a promoter of laughter of joy. It’s also a marriage booster. It is an action that makes the statement ‘I love you’ concrete and believable.

Birthday surprises.

if you don’t know any Surprise you can give to your spouse, a birthday surprise is a good and valuable surprise you can embark on in your own financial capacity.

Almost every man on earth places much value on birthday, and everyone wishes to have his or her birthday celebrated, especially when it comes as a surprise.

If you want to win the heart of your spouse, be the first to greet him or her happy birthday in the morning of her birthday, especially if you are away for unavoidable reasons.

Feeding.

Of course, this is very simple, but difficult for some people to do. What stops you from feeding your spouse with your own hand on the dinning table or anywhere, even at a party? Nothing.

There are occasions of illness that people lose interest in food, but the body needs food to recover. To pamper him or her, you can feed him or her, and speak good words into his or her ears.

Body massage.

Body massage is one of the ways by which one can cement couples’ bonds. Body massage is an act of applying pressure on the body to relax the muscles and allow for good blood circulation in the body.

As such, everybody needs a body massage now and then, especially the women. Staying back on a weekend to do either manual or device home massage for your spouse, not because you don’t have a job but for the sake of your marriage and the love for your spouse.

Waking up in the morning and just telling your spouse you want to massage him or her when he or she is not expecting it is a surprise. It attracts deep appreciation. This is also a quota of pampering your spouse.

Unexpected holiday.

vacation is an avenue to relax from stress. You can plan a holiday for your spouse or the two of you as a token of your love for him or her. Changing of environment is not only good for human beings socially, it is also a means of learning and it promotes joy.

Unexpected phone calls with good words. Putting a call through to your spouse to ask about his or her well-being, wherever he or she may be at that time, goes a long way in cementing your intimacy. He or she may be in the office or a social gathering, mostly the women, it would boost her morale, make her important and energizer her.

Surprise calls to women worth more than a million dollars to them, they believe there are things money cannot do, that can only be achieved by our personal efforts.

When you don’t put a call through to your spouse to know about his or her wellbeing so far, it would look to him or her as someone thrown out like an orphan. Accumulation of this over time can lead to low self-esteem.

When you speak good words for him or her to hear on the phone, that is pampering. Tell him or her about his or her beauty and his or her worth.

Bringing him or her to sit on your laps.

The Family Needs Shopping.

Daddy, you can just decide to do some things for her on a particular weekend, like helping her to do some shopping and allow her to rest, especially when she has gone through so much stress during the week.

She will be so grateful for the kindness. Tell her the whole family loves her. While returning home, don’t forget to buy ice cream for her.