21 Dec Marriage Treasure (Series 4)
Sex.
Sex is marriage, while food is life, they both make up marriage.
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Sex is one of the pillars that marriage learned on to survive and succeed in life. It is obvious that no marriage can function properly in the absence of sexual intercourse, as a matter of fact; regular one is recommended.
Many marriages have collapsed on the ground of sex denial in matrimony. It is not what human being just decided to be doing, rather it was orchestrated by God, and it carries a great significance.
This is a desire that will just come on its own without initiating it on some occasions. It’s natural, yet when it gets hold of a man or a woman, it is only action, performance and self-control out of hatred or discipline that cures it.
When you hate your spouse, no matter how pressed you are, you will never want to allow him or her in your space. You would rather desire someone else, not minding the position of the Bible. That is how far and bad hatred goes.
Dispute settlement.
Sexual intercourse settles many things, including misunderstandings in marriage. No matter how little an issue is between a couple, once it tends towards intercourse and there is resistance, the matter will start rising in a negative direction.
In other words, a serious misunderstanding that turned to a serious argument between a husband and wife can be predicted where it would end if there is an indication for sexual intercourse, and it is welcome.
Sex in marriage, if allowed, is a Dispute killer.
Misunderstanding, which still give room for intercourse in the middle of Settlement or while arguing is already sorted
Marriage is not about the couple alone, it’s longer and wider than the couple involves. It is Inside the marriage, that children are coming from. They have a future that deserved to be considered in every step that the couple will take concerns the marriage.
The union (staying together) of a couple must have brought up many projects that if it stops it could cause damage in the family, and even risk human’s life. If this particular pillar and treasure is neglected, the unexpected can happen, even as stated above.
The place of sex in marriage can never be overemphasised, it causes many good to happen to the marriage itself.
Many men jumped out of their matrimony to start following another Woman, all because they were shut out of their right.
If you want to enjoy your marriage as a person, you must take the issue of intercourse very seriously.
Note; When a man wants sex, every other story is secondary, likewise, the wife in her own time if she wants it, every other story around her is secondary. And the moment the mission is accomplished, what follows is laughter and happiness.
Conclusion.
What sex does in marriage is enormous, and it can never be overemphasized.
For any reason best known to you, if you deny your spouse sex, you might not even able to stand the outcome in the future.
Some who did that in the past got their fingers burnt. It wasn’t what they expected that they met. To torn back the hand of time was never possible.
Before taking the decision of denying your spouse his or her conjugal right, first bring your emotions under control.
There is no issue that communication cannot sort in marriage. Instead of strict rejection, imbibe the use of communication
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