14 Jun How To Become A Man.
A liability
Can someone be a man under his parents’ roof? NO! With that, he can only grow up to be a boy, he can never exceed that. Any attempt to do so will backfire.
There is a tiny line between being a man and a boy, but difficult to cross.
Crossing the line is never determined by the quantum of your physical muscles, but by how ready you are and doing what is necessary.
Pretender.
Never pretend not to hear the word that will benefit your life. So many who turned their back at such a truth end up regretting it.
Be responsibly independent in preparing for your marriage.
Never start your life and your marriage in your parents’ house. Otherwise, you will never cease being a child and mummy’s boy. You can never be free of interference.
The readiness of a boy to become a man begins with having at least a ROOM of his own, away from his father’s. If you don’t know what it is to pay rent, you still don’t know what responsibility is all about.
If you can avoid paying rent, you will avoid other responsibilities. Perhaps you rely on your parents to make you a man, then, they will dictate your Marriage when the time comes.
If you don’t have a job, just get something to do, that will become part of your story in life.
Excuse me, each time you go out, and you return to your parents’ house like an egg under incubation waiting to be hatched, you are just a boy, not a man. It is a threat to every woman who dreamt a better and independent home in Marriage.
If you desire a good marriage, take the bull by the horn, stop eating your mother’s food as frequent as before, and finally drop it in a short while. Appreciate and tell her, she has done so much and enough.
It is time for you to forget the taste of her food, that will prepare you to switch to the woman coming.
Who is a liability
A liability is not only someone who cannot add value because there aren’t values at his disposal to add.
A liability is also that person who is in the midst of values but refused to lift fingers to either convert the values to opportunities. He can go out to create one from the wealth of experience he aught to have gathered from the ones that surrounded him.
Conclusion.
Either a male person likes it or not, it has been in the plan of God for him to go through the process of life from birth. He can never remain a boy under parental care for life. At the actual time, he will metamorphose to raise a family for himself. The question is if he prepared to become the man that will be proud of.
The earlier a boy gets it to his brain and prepare, the better for him to become the real man the world is expecting. It’s like a proverb of early to bed, which produces early risers. No successful man in life ever waited to become an adult to start preparing for the race meant for the real man to run.
Jacob in the Bible asked his master “when shall I prepare for my home”
Genesis 30:30
For it was little which thou hadst before I came, and it is now increased unto a multitude; and the LORD hath blessed thee since my coming: and now when shall I provide for mine own house also? Kjv.
Part of preparing to become a man is adding value anywhere you find yourself. Adding value is being hardworking to acquire more capacity, experience, and knowledge one needs to successfully run the office as a REAL MAN.
Jacob displayed the capacity and capability while serving his master for years, who later became his father-in-law. More knowledge came to him in the process, which eventually prepared him for a better future.
Even though he was a boy, he knows that things cannot continue the same way for life. He started to think beyond his immediate environment, present status and time. At a time, by wisdom, he entered into an agreement with his boss over the animal.
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