12 Oct Pitfalls To A Good Relationship. Part 1.
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Introduction.
A good relationship is when there is cordiality between two friends. There is always a first-time meeting between a man and a woman, the first time meeting does not signify friendship. It is when there is an agreement between the two who desires to be friends that the relationship begins.
For a man and a woman to come to a specific term of relationship by agreement, the destination must be to become a husband and wife. And between the first time of meeting and the beginning of Marriage proper, there are many incidents (good or bad) that are likely to come up.
If care is not taking, the parties may part ways. Which they may likely term “irreconcilable differences”.
When a man holds on to his beliefs as superior to others’, there can be a problem, that is a pitfall he must be careful of, if he wants his relationship to work.
No good relationship is cheap, it does not come free, you are the one to work it out. If you see a desirable relationship or marriage, and you desire or pray to have such, you must also pray to pass through the process that brought about the good outcome you see in them and desired.
There are many things they must have let go for the relationship and Marriage to stay. Discipline must have been accommodated as part of the tools to their desired destination in Marriage.
To have a good and sustainable relationship is such a journey that calls for different steps as guidelines or directives for achieving the goal. There is nothing good in life that doesn’t have its own pitfall, at least one. Marital relationship is not an exception. Mutual understanding is always the master of the game. If any two different individuals work together in a relationship, especially marriage, and they get it right, it’s not because there are no pitfalls. All they learn to do is at all cost avoid them for the sake of the relationship. Some of the pitfalls are highly enticing, but discipline is required.
An individual in a relationship must avoid being careless in the way he or she handles the relationship. Relationships are very fragile when it comes to pitfalls, but strong when the pitfalls are avoided. When a relationship is being faced with external pressures, lack of commitment, and communication, which are purely pitfalls that can drag the relationship down the throne. It is important for anyone who is interested in a healthy and durable relationship to understand these challenges and how to avoid them.
The pitfalls that can cost any relationship reaching its potential are pointed out in this introduction. The aim of this is for the partners involved to work by the rules and strengthen the relationship.
What is a Pitfall?
Either man knows it or not, every success endeavour in life has one or two things they are allergic to, in other words, known as pitfall.
A pitfall is like a trap set to catch or arrest from accessing one’s good intentions and plan. It has become a stronghold that anyone with an ambition to succeed must take cognizance of.
It is a pitfall that restricts human beings from making success in marriage despite his or her desire.
In the next episode, we shall be speaking about some pitfalls to a good Relationship.
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